"Where did you find him?": God and ASL (Part 2)
In a previous post I talked about our difficulties finding an interpreter for church, and I mentioned some of the reasons why we think it's important to have one. Let me just say: thank God for the men in our church. Here's why.
We recently changed churches. When we moved from the 'burbs to the city we were much closer to another church in the same denomination. So it seemed to make sense to make a move. We were worried about what would happen with all the work we'd done with our session, but decided to at least visit the closer church to say 'hi, we're in the neighborhood.'
Well, let me just tell you. They were all over Ellis. We soon discovered that two members of the congregation have ASL in their background. One of them helps lead the singing, and within a few Sundays of our visiting started translating the songs as she was leading the singing. The other teaches Ellis's sunday school class, and she too immediately began using ASL wherever she could.
Completely on his own, the pastor started using what few signs he could pick up during the week in his sermon. I think he must have picked up the sign for "life" when they came for dinner one night. The next Sunday he was using the sign whenever he said the word. And he's added to his vocabulary since then.
He's also started asking the whole congregation to sign "Amen" at the end of every prayer, and he's asked us whether we would teach everyone how to sign the Lord's Prayer so we can do that together, too.
And I've noticed that as I'm translating hymns and such for Ellis in the pew, people behind me are trying to follow along. And some people are even turning around to be able to see and follow.
And the session at our old Church? They contacted the new church and offered to help out with the transition. They even had several joint meetings with our family and reps from each church's session.
So, yea. Like I said. Thank God for the men in our church.


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Wow, this post is so amazing.
Wow, this post is so amazing. That is the fruit of the Spirit, and I am so blessed from reading about it.
That is sooo good to hear,
That is sooo good to hear, J'nette!!! Wow, seriously brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful form of an answer to that prayer.
I'm sitting here with tears
I'm sitting here with tears coming down my face because I'm so, so happy for you, and so amazed at the graciousness of your church family. Wow, wow, wow.
ok, this made me cry. you're
ok, this made me cry. you're creating a bilingual space.
My brother in law used to go to a church where many people with developmental disabilities attended--it was near a residential care facility, I think--and some of them were deaf. They signed the Lord's Prayer. It was really beautiful.
Do you feel like you have
Do you feel like you have 'come home'? I'm very thankful for this experience for you!
I am so happy that your
I am so happy that your church is so welcoming and having Ellis understand what is happening at church is a high priority for your family.
Church is important for all children and it is something that needs to start at an early age and continue over time for children to really appreciate the concepts.
We have a Deaf son and when he was about 10 years old, we like you were fortunate to find a chuch that was inclusive. The minister even visited our son school and was impressed by the visual simulation at our son's school. The church started American Sign Language Classes so they could communiate with him. God is so great!
We attended this church as a family until our son went to university and even while he was at university.
Our son got married in this church. When he and his wife were expecting their first child we (his family and our family) decided to move to another chuch with a Deaf Ministry (in addition to regular ministry) because we believed this was important to the development of our son's family.
We had such good experiences with these churches that we have done some blogs and podcasts to help and encourage other families.
http://www.raisingdeafchildrenpodcast.com/church-don-and-doris-soules-ex...
http://www.raisingdeafchildrenpodcast.com/4-holiday-worship-tips
Our first grandchild was just dedicted by her parent at church!
http://www.deafparenting.com/deaf-parenting/raveena-jasleen-stephens-ded...
Thanks for sharing,
Raz
www.deafparenting.com
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